25 Naughty Games To Play With Your Partner When You’re Bored

Boredom sucks...but so do you, which can make for some great naughty games that involve touching and chatting for you and your boyfriend!

By Daina
25 Naughty Games To Play With Your Partner When You’re Bored

Games To Play With Your Boyfriend

Have you ever been so bored that you’d consider watching the grass grow rather than sit there any longer? Maybe you and your boyfriend have been chatting for what seems like decades and you just want to have fun. I have a solution that will make you a very fun girlfriend!


Have an online-only relationship due to distance? Is Facebook and texting the basis of your relationship? No worries! You may also find a few of these games will work for you!

Truth or Dare

The basic of all games, the game we played when we were young and still play now, the game of all games: Truth or Dare.


However, this should not be the same game you played when you were a kid. Use the basis of this game to make it for a boyfriend and girlfriend. Use flirty truth questions (see the next game idea, 20 Questions) and risky and naughty dares. This game can be played with your boyfriend in person or online/over the phone.

Do It or Remove It

This version of the game requires the same rules as Truth or Dare. However, if you come up with a question that your boyfriend refuses to answer, or if your boyfriend dares you to do something you can’t possibly do, then an article of clothing must be removed.

20 Questions To Get You Chatting

Another classic game, 20 Questions gets you and your boyfriend chatting. You may not have asked dirty questions, so you may need this game to get the ball rolling to find out what your boyfriend actually likes and wants.


Consider checking out my other article, 100 Flirty Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend to Spice Things Up, for dirty questions to ask your boyfriend.

Sexy Dice

This game requires the least amount of planning and thinking. You just need to buy (or even make, if you have the time) sexy dice. One die should have an action (lick, kiss, massage, touch) and one die should have a body part (chest, back, nose, ear). The point of this game is to add foreplay to your boring sex life to spice it up! Be an exciting girlfriend with this game!

Chatting Through Text Games

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Chatting through texts is flirty and fun! Consider different texting games that you can do anywhere. If you are both at a party and it’s kind of dull, start chatting through your phones. You both may want to leave the party ASAP to get some alone time, though! If you are at work or school and you want to spice things up during a boring meeting or lecture, begin to play one of these games to make the time go by faster and you coming home sweeter!


Texting games are perfect for long-distance relationships (LDR), as you don’t need to be right in front of each other in order to be chatting with these naughty games. However, be careful who you send dirty pictures too (or sometimes even dirty texts). You may trust your boyfriend now, but when you can no longer call yourself his girlfriend, those pictures or text conversations may end up somewhere other than his phone (like somewhere online). Be careful while even using online apps like Snapchat, as it was made evident by the celebrity’s photos that were leaked from private snaps that nothing is private. 


Some of the online or texting game options are:

Fill in the Blank

Each one of you at a time comes up with a statement with a blank. You can start with something simple like “I want you to ____________.” You can then warm up to the game and get riskier and more flirty.

Mad Libs

For this texting game, come up with a dirty story with certain words left blank (maybe an action that is done in the bedroom, or a body part). Next, have your boyfriend only pick out the blanks without telling him the story. You’d text him the part of speech of the word and other needed things. Examples of these would include “a dirty verb”, “body part”, “plural noun”, “adjective”. Then you’d fill in the blanks of the story using what your boyfriend came up with and send him the story over the phone one sentence at a time. He’d be on the edge of his seat trying to figure out what the next sentence is going to be and how his choices made for a very dirty and flirty story!

Mystery Photos

As you’re chatting with your boyfriend, send a closeup picture of something (the bed, a certain body part, a pair of panties, a naughty toy) and have him guess what you are sending him. You can then send him the full version of it after and explain how you’d like to use that later.

Guess What I Am Doing

More risqué than “Guess What I’m Wearing”, this game is perfect for LDR, as you can do something to yourself and have your boyfriend guess what you are doing. The game makes him think about you doing a number of things to yourself. This is going to make him want to keep playing to see what else you think up!

Guess the Sex Action Based on Emojis

Want to be a fun and modern girlfriend? Try sexy chatting using just emojis and try to guess what the other one is trying to convey. This would be a great excuse to use 🍆 and 🌮 for sexy reasons!

Never Have I Ever

This is a pretty different version of the Never Have I Ever game that you are used to playing with your drinking buddies. First, discuss the rules of the game and a safe word to use when one of you feels uncomfortable or doesn’t want to go through with something (and that it’s totally okay to use the safe word and there are no hard feelings!). 


Get comfortable on the couch or in bed, whichever you and your boyfriend prefer. Start the game off like a normal Never Have I Ever game, where one of you begins and states something you have never done. Say something you have never done in terms of sexual things (because when we’re bored, what better way to pass the time than sexy games!). 


Maybe your boyfriend starts the game off with “Never have I ever given oral.” Unlike the drinking game where if you have given oral, you’d drink, this naughty version of the game calls for him to then give you oral. That way, he can say he has done it! 


Then you’d go. “Never have I ever had sex in the reverse cowgirl position.” Then you do it. This will get things heating up, and you’d leave the game having a load of new experiences! If it turns out one or both of you are more experienced than you thought, you can change this to “Never Have We Ever”.

Spin the bottle

Unlike the game you might remember from when you were 10, this is a very intimate Spin the Bottle game. 


For this game, use a tumbler with a top and straw to it, or some other kind of handle-less cup with a top. Come up with dirty acts to do on each other. Then spin the “bottle” and whoever it lands on needs to open it up and complete the act. You can make this game more fun by putting sexy action words in and lie naked on opposite ends of the bottle. Then when you spin it, if it lands on your boyfriend, you need to open it, pick out an action word, and then do that action on the body part the bottle was pointing to.

Shopping list

I love this game, because it can be done together, or when you guys are apart. It opens your eyes to what is available for you guys to play with!


If doing this together, each of you makes a shopping list. You can even make it on Amazon and share the wish lists with each other. Find sexy lingerie, toys, or other naughty items you would want to have. Your boyfriend should do the same. Then share the lists and see if you have anything in common. Make lists about 25 items long and buy whatever you have in common (similar items count, so a red lingerie set and a black lingerie set are close enough to count as common).

Strip Twister

Yep. I said it. Do you remember how hard of a game Twister is? Now imagine trying to do it while simultaneously stripping. You still play the game same as you would, but every time you change the rules a little to accommodate this naughty version. 


For instance, every time you need to put a body part on green, you need to remove an article of clothing. You can alter this idea for more or less stripping by making the rules more or less specific. You and your boyfriend can remove clothing after every turn, or you can choose to say every time you put your right foot on red. 


The trick in this version of the game is to stay up while removing an article of clothing. The bonus of this game is to get to the point where you and your boyfriend are both naked and still going!

Sexy Jenga

Remember this game? I don’t think my hands are every as shaky as they are during this game. But now you can make this childhood game into a sexy adult one! Write sexual acts on each piece. You can switch between naughty ones, flirty ones, and just downright silly ones. Play the game as normal and every time you pull a block out, read the act, complete the act, then you may place the block on top of the pile and continue the game.

Musical Sheets

Like musical chairs, but this one can be done in the comfort of your own bed. You and your boyfriend should be naked for this game, so plan accordingly! 


Begin the game by finding musical chairs music on Youtube (if you search “musical chairs music”, they have music that has pauses built into it…thank God for technology). Keep moving in the bed, experimenting with positions and placement of your body, but you should make sure your bodies are intermingling until the music stops. Whatever position you are in when the music stops, you must do some kind of sexual act with one another in that position.

Cops and Robbers

What is sexier than a game of roleplaying cops and robbers? You can even get costumes involved, which would be sexy. This game should include a whole skit and the point of the game is to not break character!

The Oral Race

What kind of game list would this be if it didn’t include a race of some sort? You can do this game in one of two ways. The first is to time how long you and your boyfriend each give each other oral. The one who does it longest wins! The other way to play this game is to 69 with your boyfriend and the first one to stop (even for a second) loses. You can determine the prize for the winner of the race!

Guess What’s Inside You

This game requires a secret shopping trip for your boyfriend to complete without you knowing what he has (although he should be buying mostly phallic shaped items…and condoms). You should be blindfolded and, with a condom covering each thing, as to not give you a UTI, your boyfriend will slip each item into you. Based on the shape, size, and texture, you try to guess what he is fucking you with. Maybe he will even use himself as an item!

Around The World in 80 Minutes

This game would work best if you had a globe lying around. However, you could also use a map. Have your boyfriend close his eyes and choose a location. Do your research and find out the most popular sex position or sexual act in that country. Then do it! Keep this game going until you’ve hit a dead end.

Bucket List

This game may take quite a bit of time, so it can be completed over the course of a few days (perfect for a vacation!). Both you and your boyfriend should come up with a bucket list of sexual acts you each would want to do. Try out at least 1 on each of your lists each day.

Red Light, Green Light

How far would you have to go before you make your boyfriend uncomfortable? This game will be able to tell! Set the rules with your boyfriend and create a safe word (most people use “red light”) for him to use when he feels uncomfortable. You can do this in the comfort of your own home or go out in public and see how far your boyfriend will let you go while in public before he gives the red light.


Play the game as it is meant to be played, but create your own dirty clues. It’ll be tons of fun to see your boyfriend draw sexy pictures and try to have you guess what they are!

Drinking Games

Relationship games are much sexier when they are done with a bit of liquor inside you. So do some of these drinking games with a sexy twist.

Movie Drinking Games

You know those movie or TV show drinking games, like take a shot every time Barney Stinson says “Suit up!”? Take that game and add a sexy twist. Not only should you take a drink, but you should also add another flair. Have a few catchphrases that are used and when one of the phrases is said, you each take a shot and then do rock-paper-scissors-shoot and the loser has to provide the winner with oral until another of the catchphrases is said. After the second catchphrase, you each take a shot and can resume watching until another catchphrase is said and repeat the game.


We all know the rules of Kings. Rewrite the rules to this game to make a sexier and more intimate game. The rules should include a combination of drinking and sexy acts every time a card is put down. Have the rules written down to refer to easily.

Which Game Are You Going to Play With Your Boyfriend?

These games are great for girlfriends and boyfriends to play when they are bored. Every game has their upsides and maybe not every game is for you. That’s fine! Play a game both you and your boyfriend are going to enjoy and that will cure the boredom!