Does He Like Me? 25 Signs for Adults That He Fancies You

Is there a guy you like and you are wondering whether he has feelings for you? Here are 25 adults signs that should help you know if he fancies you.

By Gerald Matiri
Does He Like Me? 25 Signs for Adults That He Fancies You

Are you afraid of exposing yourself?

Have you ever thought that having some guard in a relationship was the right thing to do? Probably, you felt that you may love too much and expose yourself to heartbreak. The downside of doing this is that you may end up getting blinded by the guard to a point where you end up losing on a good relationship. You would rather be on the lookout for the adult signs that a guy really likes you. Here are 25 signs to look out in adults to determine if a guy really fancies you.

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1. Texting a simple message is an adult sign that he likes you

It may be a simple message like "hi." You may think that this message means nothing because it doesn’t require a lot of effort. However, if it meant nothing, then it shows that there was no need for him to text you. The only reason he sent such a simple message is because he is still deciding whether to pursue a relationship with you. However, trust that he is still interested in having a conversation with you. The only reason why your crush shows interest in you is because he likes you. If he is the one, he will go out of his way to speak to you. Whether it is sending you a meme, a love story or a simple text, it's among the signs that he wants to get involved and become part of your world. This is the attention that he needs.

2. His body language is among adults signs that he likes you

The body usually does a lot of subconscious things, knowingly or unknowingly. If your crush likes you, one of the signs that he fancies you is that he will keep looking at you. If he keeps touching your shoulder, arm or legs, these are obvious signs that he has feelings for you.

3. Shielding you is among adult signs that he likes you

We all defend the people we like, whether they are our family members, friends or lovers. This is a good way of telling if people fancy us. If someone tries to bring you down and he defends you, this is among the adult signs that he likes you and has feelings for you.

4. When he comes with his friend to meet you and your friends

If he comes to meet you with his friends, understand that it took him time to convince his friends to meet his special someone. When doing that, he had to tell them why they need to hang out with you despite the fact that they have never met you. This is among the adult signs that the guy has feelings for you.

5. When he follows-up on you

Probably your crush started by sending you a Facebook message inviting you to his party. Later on he followed this up with a text message. The fact that he takes time to follow-up on you is among the clear signs that he really wants you to be in the party. This can only happen when he has feelings for you.

6. Putting away his phone is an adult sign that he like you

In this technological era, phones have become part of dates and even conversation with people. It is now common to see a couple in a restaurant who are not talking but are busy on their phones. It doesn’t happen often that you will find someone putting off their phones completely when speaking with their friends. When this happens, it is a sign that he likes you. What he is doing is to practice being mindfully present and he respects your company. These are among the clear signs that he really likes you.

7. Word play

When you hear men using the word “date” when discussing plans with you, it is a sign that they really fancy you. This is because this word is scary for many who are afraid to commit. When you hear your crush ask you if you'd be his date, this is an adult's sign that he has feelings for you.

8. Remembering small details is among adults signs that he like you

Maybe you told him of your plan to watch "Titanic" or go on a hike. Later, when you meet him the following day, he asks how the movie was or whether you enjoyed the hike. Or you may have told him that your mother was coming to visit and later when you meet him, he asks how your mum is doing. This is a clear sign for adults that he likes you. You might have told him of your love for the latest Chris Brown single. Later on your birthday, he brings you the album. All these are adult signs that he's paying attention to what you're saying. The fact that he recalls the little details is one of the signs that he fancies you. This doesn’t have to be something big, but look out for anything that shows he was paying attention when you were speaking.

9. Opening up to you is an adults sign that he like you

A solid relationship is one that is built on people opening up to one another. When you see your crush opening up to you, this is a tell-tale sign that he totally likes you. This is one way of showing trust and respect and this forms a firm foundation to a stronger relationship.

10. When he does a favor that you like

When he does something good that you hadn’t asked him to do, you might think that he is just trying to be nice to you. However, this could be a clear sign that he likes you.

11. Remembering your special occasion is an adults sign that he likes you

If he remembers your birthday even before he gets a notification from Facebook, this is a clear sign that you have a special place in his heart.

12. When he accepts your idea

Probably he wanted to go out with the boys but you asked him to accompany you for a swim, this is among the clear signs that he likes you. Men will not just abandon their plans to party for anybody.

13. Look into his eyes

The eyes have the ability to provide a lot of clues on whether your crush fancies you or not. When he does, the pupils of his eyes will usually get bigger. This is a clear adult sign that he likes you. Another sign is if you find him looking at you a bit longer. Look out also for how his eyebrows move when he is looking at you. If he keeps stealing glances at you and smiling, this is a good sign that he fancies you. Consider whether he is using a lot of eye contact when looking at you. Once your eyes meet, does he scan you from head to toe? When you find him blinking more than usual, it could be a sign that he is lusting after you.

14. He initiates

Imagine you are at a party, and the guy comes over to you and strikes up a conversation. This is a sign that the guy is interested in you.

15. Keeps grooming himself

Have you noticed that your crush keeps playing around with his watch or making his hair smooth? This is a gesture that shows that he wants you to see him looking his best. When you see this sign in men, it shows that they fancy you.

16. Gets closer to you

If you are standing next to him and you find him trying to narrow the gap, this is an adults sign that he like you. This also applies when he chooses to sit next to you rather than opposite to you.

17. He acts differently when around you

When a guy really like you, he will act in a different manner when he is around you. He might be a bit nervous and fidgety or he can try to tone down that macho attitude. All these are adults signs that he like you.

18. Compliment your look

When you find guys complementing your appearance, this is clear sign that they fancy you. When a dude likes you, he will closely look at your look. He will not be shy in showing that to you. Compliments show that he notices something good about you and is happy to make you feel good.

19. He become a bit nervous

When a guy really like you he will get a bit nervous when he is around you. This is because he is worried that he might leave a bad impression. Some of the signs that show that he is nervous include unexplained laughter, clumsiness, fidgeting and sweaty palms

20. He engages you in his life

Another sign that guys fancy you is when they want to spend time with you. He might propose that you engage in different things while with him. He doesn’t wait to hang out with you during that occasional outing but spends a lot of his time with you. This is a sign that he fancies you.

21. Laughs at your dry jokes

When you find that he is always laughing at your jokes no matter how dry they may be, this is a sign that he likes you. He is just trying to impress you.

22. Likes all your post

You might think that this is a bit odd, but it is very real. In this age of social media, if you find that a dude always likes your Facebook post, this is an adult sign that he likes you. This is a direct indication that he is trying to know you better. He want to show that he has interest in your likes and dislikes.

23. He shows his affection for you

If the guy is not afraid of showing a bit of public display of affection or kissing when in a crowd, this is a sign that is likes you. He is doing these things not to draw your attention but to make a declaration of is intention.

24. His friends know about you

If you find a man telling his friends about you, this is another sign that he really likes you.

25. Showing interest in your things

If you find that instead of talking about himself, the guy only show interest on your hobbies, interests, likes and dislikes, this is a clear sign that he likes you. Most men love speaking about themselves. When they meet someone they fancy, they will listen carefully to what she has to say.