How To Seduce A Man In Bed: 35 Ways To Sexually Arouse Him

Here are a few tips that will help you to seduce your man sexually in bed and keep the spice in your married life. You can try a few of these.

By Tanaya Nath
How To Seduce A Man In Bed: 35 Ways To Sexually Arouse Him

How To Seduce A Man In Bed: 35 Ways To Sexually Arouse Him

Imagine having the proper control on you man and being able to sexually arouse him in bed anytime you want. There is nothing hotter than that. If you know how to seduce your man in bed, you will never have to settle for less ever. You will never have to ask your man for the attention you want and rekindle the heat in your relationship, even your married life. Here are thirty-five ways, including text, that you can use to seduce your man in bed for a heated romance.

Tie Him Up To Seduce Your Man In bed

Even the thought of it is sexy enough to seduce and arouse a man. So, take control in the bedroom, trust me every man gets seduced just by seeing a woman take charge in bed. Get your man all tied up. Use silk scarves or the cuffs especially made for games like this. Don’t tie up too tight and keep his head on the pillow propped up so that he can see how wild you are getting. You can also blindfold him. But not every man likes being tied up and dominated. So, make sure you know how your man likes you to be and play to seduce him in bed. It will make the sex in your married life rocking.

Give Your Man A Striptease In Bed To Seduce Him

If you want your man to know how sexy you are, there are ways other than text, make sure he sees you undress. When he is lying down in bed, watching TV or distracted, take him by surprise. Put on a seductive music and sway lightly on it, like you are dancing in yourself. Slowly unbutton your shirt and slip it from one shoulder and then another. Touch yourself over the neck and cleavage. You will have the attention of your man by now. Striptease him further the way you want but make sure you keep giving him that hot look in between.

Dress It Up And Seduce Your man

Use your lacy clad lingerie to dress yourself up and seduce him. Like if you are getting ready for a party, put on that stunning lingerie and those high heels. Strut around sexily in them, put on your makeup and let him drool over you. You can do that while undressing after the party as well. You will have him pouncing on you in no time. Don’t make this a routine so he would lose interest in the fun. Your married life will get better with good sex.

Mirror Image Your Man To Sexually Seduce Him

You might need to learn and master body language to let him know you are interested in sex. Try and mirror some of his actions, it will seduce him and turn him on. But don’t mimic everything he does. Like if your man leans towards you, lean towards him as well with a passionate eye contact. Lick your lips as well. It will get him interested in you without a doubt.

Play Footsie To Sexually Seduce Him

While out at the dinner with friends sit beside him or right across him. Move your heel clawed feet up and down his calf under the table slowly and look in his eyes. Then slip off your heels and caress his legs with your bare feet. Tickle his ankles with your toes. If you are eating at home or a dark club, put you bare feet up in his lap. Either he will take you straight into the room, or he would be just waiting desperately to do that. You can text him about a surprise before going out.

Wear Your Only A Coat To Seduce Him

Wear your makeup, heels and a long coat to a dinner outing. When asked why you aren’t taking your coat off, just tell him you can’t. Give him the reason of course but whisper it in his ears or text him. Trust me; he will not be able to concentrate on anything else but your coat. As soon as you both reach home, he will dive for you like a hungry tiger. Your sex life and married life would never have been better.

Whisper To Sexually Seduce Your Man In Bed

Speak softly into his ears, telling your man how sexy he looks in a particular dress or style or simply whisper ‘I Love You.’ And don’t stop there, flick the inside of his ears with the tip of your tongue and gently bite his earlobe. It will send the shivers down his spine for sure. His mind will run wild, and he won’t be able to keep his hands off you.

Sexually Seduce Your Man In Bed With Nap Time

While you are watching the TV on holiday, get up from the couch, sighing loudly, and tell him you are going for a little nap. Walk away casually removing your clothes one by one. Look over your shoulder at him suggestively and smile. By the time you reach the bedroom, make sure you are naked. Before that, make the bed looks tempting enough to seduce him and for a heated encounter. When he sees you lying naked with your eyes closed on that bed, it will be his wet dream come true. If he doesn’t get the signal, text him to come to the room.

Scrub Down Your Man To Seduce Him

When he is in the shower; unexpectedly join him there, and slowly soap his entire body giving special attention to unique body parts. Give him an elaborate wash and sensuous one too. Make it obvious to him there is more on your mind than just soaping him. He would drag you to bed right away.

Let Your Man See You Touching Yourself

Every man finds it hot to see his woman touching herself and her finger or a vibrator disappearing inside her. While you are watching TV, just start touching yourself subtly and then indulge yourself in pleasure. Do it like you would when he is not around. Make sounds, moan, close your eyes, enjoy pleasing yourself. You will be having another round of pleasure waiting for you after you are done.

To Seduce Him Accessorise Yourself

No matter what’s your style, there is always a sex-appropriate dress that will suit you and seduce him. It could be a hot lacy lingerie or a baby doll. You can also use some naughty role-play dresses or that hot pantyhose you saw on the website. The more you dress right, more you feel confident, the more he will want you in bed right away.

Go Commando And Let Your Man Know

When you are at a party or dinner, don’t wear your knickers. Whisper it in your husband’s ears, let him know you aren’t wearing anything underneath your dress. Or, just slip in the washroom, take off your knickers and discreetly slip it into the pocket of your man. He will be extremely excited but unable to do anything about that. He will be waiting to get his hands on you.

Touch Him And Tease Him

While you are enjoying a TV show or a movie, take him by surprise. Kiss and lick his fingertips, nuzzle his neck, lick under his ears and gently bite his lobes. Or, just sit on his lap facing him, rub your crotch on his thighs or dry hump him while you kiss him deeply. And then get up and walk towards your room, looking back at him. He will follow you for sure.

Get A Bag Full Of Goodies

While he is busy in the office, you hit a sex toy shop. At the end of the night, when you are done with dinner and are enjoying a leisure time, just drop the bag of goodies in his lap. He will know for sure what’s up in your mind and will oblige of course.

Hint Your Man What To Expect Later

When he is leaving for the office whisper in his ears about a hot evening, he might expect later. You can also leave a note in his wallet or send him a text message indicating the same. He will not be able to wait until he returns home.

Tease Him With A Photo

Don’t send him a naked picture of you but more subtle teasing images and seduce him. Like the shots of your nipples from your shirt or a picture of how high up your skirt rides when you are at your desk. He will be imagining the rest instead of working.

Take Off Your Bra In His Presence

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Well, I am not sure why a man finds this seductive, especially in bed. But if you remove your bra in front of him and then go on doing what you have been doing, his mind will be stuck there until he gets his hands on them.

Take Him Lingerie Shopping To Seduce Him

Pick some of the hottest and naughtiest lingerie and baby dolls. Try them on and ask him to judge on how they look on you and which ones to buy. He will go crazy seeing you in those hot little numbers and yet not being able to touch you until you are home with him.

Don’t Let Him Touch You

Parade around naked in front of him but don’t allow him to touch you. You can also tie him up in bed while you do naughty things to him. Even better, tell him if he touches you will stop doing whatever you are doing to him. When he is at the edge, he will either touch you or die to want to touch you. If he touches, you stop. Either way, it will drive him wild and become sexually aroused.

Show Yourself Off To Your Man

Just wear your hot lingerie or a babydoll along with the pantyhose and just lie there reading a magazine, doing some work on your laptop or just watching TV. Let him figure out what’s on your mind and what he wants to do. Seeing you like this will seduce him to the extent of driving him crazy.

Take Him Out

Pick him up from his office and take him to some nice hotel. Prepare the room beforehand. Decorate the room and spare some seductive fragrance. Arrange for his favorite exotic food and drink. Dress up sexily and then watch him getting seduces without much effort.

Talk Dirty

Every man likes a little dirty talk from his woman. Tell him your fantasy, what you would like to do. Tell him how you please yourself when he is not around or tell him about a wet dream you have had. You have done the work.

Your Man Loves The Visual

Put up a life-size mirror when you often have sex. When he sees the entire action in the mirror, your man will be even more hot, more sexually aroused for you. Even you will have fun.

Let Him Tear Your Clothes

Men like to be primal. Wear a shirt that you won’t mind being ripped off. Beg him to rip off your shirt and take you. He will love the sex really but what will seduce him most is that you have let him tear your shirt apart. There is something wild about that.

Show Your Man How You Like It

A man is very much turned on and seduced by a woman who is sure of herself and knows what she wants, especially in bed. So, tell him where to touch and how to touch. Guide him to your g-spots. It will sexually arouse him a lot just to see how much pleasure he could give you by a few touches.

Take Your Hair Down

To sexually arouse your man, look at him suggestively and then take your long hair down. He would know what you mean really. You can also do that in bed, lie him down, sit astride over him and then let your hair do the magic.

Take Control In Bed

Every man likes a bold woman. They are easily seduced by the ones who take the control, especially in bed. Also, men are not good at responding to cues and clues. So, take control of your sex life in your hands and see the fun.

Try A Game Together

Man is often sexually aroused by adrenaline rush and being competitive. So, play a game with him. It could be anything. You could also put a naughty prize for the winner. He would be all charged up thinking about the prize and the game ahead.

Seduce Him In Red

Many studies show that a man when choosing between a room full of women, the color red stands out on his radar almost every time. There are many logics behind it. Nonetheless, it is a fact that red color never fails to get the attention of men. Wear red to sexually arouse him.

Show Your Man Your Vulnerable Side

Almost every man is drawn to vulnerable woman as it strokes their ego. They crave to play the role of her protector. One of the easiest and best way to show your vulnerability and sexually arouse him is to smile, raise one of your shoulders and tilt your head to that side. This exposes the most vulnerable part of your body, your neck. It makes a man want her and tell him that she trusts him and is ready for more.

Flirt With Him

Just because you are in a relationship with a man, it doesn’t mean you should stop flirting with him. It will keep the spice up in your relationship. Add a double meaning sentence, compliment him or say naughty things. He will be aroused by knowing you still carry same interest in him.

Reveal Some Of Your Skin

While you are going to a party for dinner, wear a revealing dress. Show off your shoulder and a little of your cleavage along with your shapely sexy legs. He will be dying to take it off you through the evening. You will be amazed at how much a man is sexually aroused just by seeing a little of your soft skin.

Spice It Up With Variety

Always the same routine can get very boring. So, keep adding variety even when you are in the act. Keep changing speed, intensity, position or pressure. It will not only keep your man interested, but he will also crave for more. Variety gets a man sexually aroused in bed easily,

Take Over

Just make your man lie down and relax while you do all the work. It will keep his mind off what he has to do next to please you. Hence he will be more relaxed and will enjoy whatever you are doing to him in bed. It will sexually arouse him further. You both will end up enjoying the passion.

Get Rough

When you get rough with your man, he gets sexually aroused. So, go ahead and bring out the beast in both of you. While slow, easy, and sensual is good, rough has another charm to it that gets a man wanting more.

These are thirty-five ways to sexually arouse him in bed. You can get creative and think of many more ways. Keeping the spice up in your relationship is your job. Rather than complaining, make an effort to keep it alive and happening. You will never have a boring moment with your man, especially in bed. A good sex life makes the relationship deeper and stronger. Have fun spicing up your sex and married life.