What Are The Social Constructs Regarding Wearing Underwear?
Do you ever question why society is built the way it is? Our society is made up of rules that bound our actions and thoughts, on some more than others. It's socially acceptable for men to go topless, whereas, for women, it could be a crime. The social constructs that bind us from going commando are being questioned as to our society advances. Reasons why we must wear underwear, aside from protecting our private parts from physical harm against rough fabrics, might be that our private parts are seen as secrets, reserved only for our significant others. Not wearing underwear can be seen as a sign that we are not faithful because we are trying to seduce other men.
Even the underwear we wear is controlled by our society. Men have to wear boxers and girls have to wear panties. Even if a girl wants to wear a boxer for her own comfort, it's still less judged upon than a guy wearing panties. Why is that? Why do guys want to wear panties and why we should accept it?
What Are The Usual Demographics Of Men Who Wear Panties? (Gender, Civil Status, Etc.)
You may be surprised. Most people think men that wear underwear are gross, uneducated, and have mental disabilities. Actually, a lot of them are able and enjoy high social status. Men that enjoy wearing panties are usually those with high education and with a renowned social status like a military official, lawyer, or doctor, etc. Don't get confused. They don't have any mental disabilities nor are they in any cult.
Many of the men are happily married to their wives, possibly with children too. Life is more or less perfect for them. Their desire to wear panties have nothing to do with their life.
However, it is also known that most men with this preference tend to hide it from the people around them. Even their closest friends and family don't know about it. The obvious reason would be the fear of being judged, getting abandoned if people find out. The worst fear is losing their social status because of their unconventional habit and getting treated as if they committed a crime.
Why Does My Husband Want To Wear Panties? (Reasons Behind Men Wearing Panties)
1. It reminds them the comfort from a mother
It's not as weird as you'd think. Panties are associated with feminism and a mother's traits are often nurturing and caring. Panties are the most prominent trait that reminds him of a nurturing mother. The feeling of love and sensitivity. He feels safe when wearing panties because he feels the protection.
Your husband loves wearing your panties because he feels loved. It has nothing to do with his mother. It's the feeling of love that he is after. So don't feel awkward about it.
2. Panties are more stylish
Undeniably, panties are way more stylish than men's underwear. They come in with lots more patterns, textures, styles, and shapes. Our society basically taught us that only women should be fashionable to attract men. We don't expect men to care about their underwear but many of them do. They want to look as attractive as we do. But when was the last time you saw underwear manufacturers cater to men's needs and design attractive underwear for them?
It's not necessary the women's panties part they lust. It's really the fashion they want. No, your husband does not want to be a woman or you. He only likes how stylish your panties are. Men deserve fancy underwear too.
3. The materials are comfortable
Name one more fabric used in men's underwear other than cotton. It's not fair for men that they don't have a lot of choices in choosing their underwear when women can choose from cotton, organza, silk and many more. It seems that the society sees men that don't care about their comfort as the most manly and the most desirable when men should have their freedom too.
The variety in materials used in panties make it almost impossible for men's underwear to compete. When will your husband ever find panties as comfortable?
4. Panties are more flattering
Men's underwear doesn't cater to compliment your body shapes. They are there simply because you have to wear one. Panties are more flattering to your body shapes. It brings up your body structure more and fits better than regular men's underwear. Your husband may like panties because he likes how it compliments his body.
5. Panties turn them on
Panties can be really exotic for men. It's the sexy zone they never truly understand about women. They know women in underwear are hot. It makes them curious about panties, the seemingly attractive feature about dressing up sexy. Wearing panties themselves makes them feel exotic and wanted. It's a huge turn-on for them. They feel as sexy as women in panties.
Couples sometimes like putting on panties during sex or during foreplay together because of the exoticness. There are so many sex shops selling men panties for couples to enjoy during sex.
What Do Studies Have To Say About Men Wearing Panties?
As you might have figured, there are rarely any formal studies conducted and researched on this topic. And the findings are highly divided depending on who is conducting the study. But in general, men that enjoy wearing panties are those with high education and higher IQ. They are hardworking and determined. Elites of the society as people would put it.
Men with a high IQ and education tend to challenge social constructs more and the world we live in. They feel less bound by rules and want to break free. With a critical mind, they see our world is divided by many things, one way or another. They either feel the need to challenge it or feel very conflicted about it. Why do they have to obey to certain things because of their gender? Should your gender define what you can't do compared to the other sex?
Wearing panties are perfectly healthy and harmless, despite many news reports of perverts doing unspeakable things with panties as far as to break into someone's house to steal them. That's why men are shy or reluctant to let their family know about their preference because of the negative stigma surrounding men wearing panties. Men could feel very conflicted because they don't feel it's wrong to wear something that makes them comfortable but the society will make them feel they should apologize for it.
Why Is It Completely Okay For Men To Wear Panties?
Who is your husband really hurting by wearing panties? Realistically speaking, you are the only one that will see your husband's panties. Weird fetish or not, people don't generally share what underwear they wear with others, so most likely you will be the only one to know about this. If you feel uncomfortable about it, that's because society has taught you what is okay for one gender to do but not the other.
Even a century ago, it would be highly frowned upon for women to wear suits. Can you imagine being told you can't wear suits today because you are a girl? Our world has to evolve and gender equality goes both ways. Normality a century ago can be seen as oppression today.
Men deserve as many choices as a woman when it comes to fashion. Unfortunately, the fashion landscape today is highly skewed towards women. Men don't have as many choices when choosing clothes or they would be seen as "sissy". All these stigmas make it hard for men to enjoy something innocuous.
Wearing panties itself is very innocent. Panties are comfortable, stylish, and exotic. Men want to look as good as women. There should not be anything stopping them if they feel comfortable in it. Couples even do it together for fun and excitement, a little couple secret.
There are too many social constructs telling everyone how to behave and act according to their gender, social classes, etc. Our world is only evolving if we keep challenging the so-called normal and build a place where everyone can feel comfortable being who they are.
Wearing panties for men is not nearly as disgusting as people label it. It's a healthy and innocent thing to do. Millions of men do it for various reasons. If the world can have less judgment and be more accepting, your husband may feel comfortable about sharing his secret. it's perfectly okay to like what he likes. Understand why your husband does it and give him the love he deserves.
People should be anything they want to be as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. No one should judge what makes someone happy if they are not harming others. Your husband is still the same man you love. Sit down with your husband and embraces his love as he embraces yours!